
An Extremely Pro-Life Life
Recorded: November 21, 2008  Posted: January 18
David wrote on 01/18/2008 at 02:40 PM
Afterthought
Please forgive the occasional audio gaps in this diavlog. We did our best to fix them, but the final cut is still missing about two minutes.
--David of BhTV
ohcomeon wrote on 01/18/2008 at 03:43 PM
Re: Afterthought
well....that was certainly different.
Wonderment wrote on 01/18/2008 at 04:00 PM
Greatest moments
Greatest understatement: "I have to tip my hat to my wife, Kathy. I couldnt' have done it without her."
Greatest overstatement (and cliché): "Every person is a miracle."
Most medieval moment: Rick claims abstaining from premarital sex is a way to honor women.
2nd most medieval moment: "Not everything has to be tested; things that aren't of God can appear as an angel of light. "
Most self-deluding assumption: The 7 kids over 18 are all virgins.
Worst choice of words (Jacqueline): "There are interesting cleavages in that community."
Best question by Jackie and biggest contradiction in philosophy of Rick: She asks him why he rejects "man of faith" Obama and embraces pro-choice Guiliani. While Rick claims that anti-abortionism is his absolute human rights non-negotiable issue, he rules out Obama for being pro-choice, yet admires Guilliani.
ohcomeon wrote on 01/18/2008 at 04:28 PM
Re: Greatest moments
I would like to take a poll among the male commentors here. How many of you believe that all his sons over 18 are virgins? Also, is it likely that of 13 boys and 1 girl, none is gay?
ohcomeon wrote on 01/18/2008 at 04:30 PM
Re: Greatest moments
I also noticed that being pro life is only an absolute rule for democrats.
Wonderment wrote on 01/18/2008 at 04:44 PM
Re: Greatest moments
How many of you believe that all his sons over 18 are virgins? Or otherwise spilled their seed?
Also, is it likely that of 13 boys and 1 girl, none is gay? 1.4 gay/lesbian
bjkeefe wrote on 01/18/2008 at 04:56 PM
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The one positive thing that can be said about Rick Arndt is that Rod Dreher no longer has to hold the top slot on the BH.tv List of Creeps.
I find the notion of procreating fourteen children repulsive and irresponsible. We have too many people on the planet for that kind of behavior. If you're the sort that finds the idea of abortion so repellent, then you should be first in line for adopting unwanted children, not siring excessive flocks of your own.
Every religious nut I've ever met with Arndt's attitude has the underlying agenda to outbreed the Others. This attitude makes me sick. Arndt's creation of a cult by insulating his kids from the outside world is nothing short of child abuse. None of them have moved out yet? I'm sorry, that's just whacked. Finally, Arndt's obvious experience in soft-pedaling his message and speaking in code only aggravates the nausea.
I don't know why BH.tv feels compelled to give air time to the proselytizer of such an abhorrent message. There's a lot to be said for diverse viewpoints -- and I'll sit through most of them
bjkeefe wrote on 01/18/2008 at 04:59 PM
Re: Greatest moments
Quoting ohcomeon: I would like to take a poll among the male commentors here. How many of you believe that all his sons over 18 are virgins? Also, is it likely that of 13 boys and 1 girl, none is gay? ohc:
I'm with Wonderment on the statistical guess for the second question. As to the first, my immediate reaction was to laugh at Arndt's claim. However, five minutes of listening to him made me think there's a possibility that he has been so successful in brainwashing his offspring that he's made them impotent.
Wonderment wrote on 01/18/2008 at 05:12 PM
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I don't know why BH.tv feels compelled to give air time to the proselytizer of such an abhorrent message. There's a lot to be said for diverse viewpoints -- and I'll sit through most of them -- but there is also somethng to be said for not wasting time on wingnuts. Until we also start hearing from members of the Flat Earth Society, PETA, and Nancy Reagan's astrologers, I would like BH.tv to ignore the equally lunatic ravings of Arndt and his ilk.
I have to admit I like this guy a lot more than I like Lake, Frum, Goldberg and Mickey. At least Rick the Patriarch didn't make a religion out of waging a war of aggression on Iraq or hating Mexicans.
zookarama wrote on 01/18/2008 at 05:12 PM
polar opposites?
Science Saturday / Freaky Friday
bjkeefe wrote on 01/18/2008 at 05:39 PM
Re: polar opposites?
Quoting zookarama: Science Saturday / Freaky Friday Nice!
.....
bjkeefe wrote on 01/18/2008 at 05:48 PM
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Quoting Wonderment: I have to admit I like this guy a lot more than I like Lake, Frum, Goldberg and Mickey. At least Rick the Patriarch didn't make a religion out of waging a war of aggression on Iraq or hating Mexicans. I can understand your point, Wonder, but from where I sit, I look at the other wingnuts you listed as people I feel like I can at least intellectually respect (excluding Jonah, of course, and okay, maybe not so much Mickey, either, lately). Guys like Arndt are completely devoid of rational thinking or real morality, their agenda and techniques of promoting it are much more insidious, and hence, I find him far more repulsive.
creativepig wrote on 01/18/2008 at 06:03 PM
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Quoting bjkeefe: I can only say that I hope Jackie Shire gets in his face a lot more than she did in the first twelve minutes. Without being openly hostile (or having to work very hard) she is able to tease out some nauseating comparisons of homosexuality to alcoholism and pedophilia as "objectively wrong." This diavlog tops cop-in-every-mosque for sheer loathsomeness.
thprop wrote on 01/18/2008 at 06:21 PM
Not a clown car
Quoting Wonderment: Greatest understatement: "I have to tip my hat to my wife, Kathy. I couldnt' have done it without her." Michelle and Jim Bob Duggar were in the news last August when Michelle popped out #17. I assume she is pregnant again by now - it has been over 5 months since she gave birth. Here is a picture of the family - along with a message that Michelle should listen to.
Jackie wrote on 01/18/2008 at 06:31 PM
Re: Afterthoughts
I want to add just a thought to this discussion. As much as I may disagree with Arndt’s views on the need for chastity before marriage, I have to acknowledge that he is far from alone in expecting it of his children, even among secular progressives. One issue I should have done a better job of discussing is how much common ground I observe in the parenting styles of my liberal, academic friends with Christian homeschoolers—children in both families are incredibly protected and shielded from sex and violence in popular culture for example, and maybe to an unhealthy degree in both cases.
1swellfoop wrote on 01/18/2008 at 06:34 PM
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Although I probably disagree with Arndt's positions on most of these issues pretty strongly, I don't think labeling his views irrational and immoral off the bat is really fair... Nor does labeling his family a cult really speak to the complexities that come with a large family. (Despite what he may say, I am sure that there is more difference within that group than one might think)
I say this because I've spent a good chunk of my life surrounded by people who have made similar choices to Arndt and I've found them to be... Often very decent in a way that I think gets lost in the political rhetoric surrounding these issues. I'd even go so far to say that some of the best people I know have decided to have large, overtly christian families.
Now that isn't to play down the issues of ideological conformity that come up here... Obviously, there are problems implied in that that Arndt really isn't dealing with and that should give everyone pause. And there is the population issue, which is, duh, huge. And his political beliefs are... bizarre at best, potentially disasterous at worst. And the fact
Wonderment wrote on 01/18/2008 at 06:47 PM
Re: Afterthoughts
Jackie,
You did an outstanding job, and I should have mentioned that earlier.
I totally got your purpose in doing the interview, which you stated up front. It was about parenting and values and only tangentially about religion and politics. Kudos.
bjkeefe wrote on 01/18/2008 at 06:48 PM
Re: Not a clown car
Outstanding!
bjkeefe wrote on 01/18/2008 at 07:19 PM
Re: Afterthoughts
Jackie:
Thanks for jumping into the peanut gallery. Sorry I couldn't stand Arndt, since it meant having to switch you off, too. I look forward to your speedy return, whether you want to discuss arms control or any other topic, but please, no more high fructose televangelists like Arndt.
As much as I may disagree with Arndt’s views on the need for chastity before marriage, I have to acknowledge that he is far from alone in expecting it of his children, even among secular progressives. One issue I should have done a better job of discussing is how much common ground I observe in the parenting styles of my liberal, academic friends with Christian homeschoolers ... I'm not really disagreeing with you here, but I want to make clear the distinction between Christianist homeschoolers and liberal/secular-progressive/academic parents. The former class is nearly universal in their denial of the realities of human sexuality, especially as it pertains to its development in teenagers. I grant that some of the latter camp aren't much better, especially when it comes to over-protectiveness, but there are also a lot in that second camp who recognize reality, and try to bring their kids up accordingly. It
nojp wrote on 01/18/2008 at 08:01 PM
nut shell
no no no no no no no marriage yes yes yes yes yes yes yes
Wonderment wrote on 01/18/2008 at 08:45 PM
Re: Afterthoughts
It's a mistake even to suggest that there is some kind of equivalence between guys like Arndt and enlightened people, even if the distinction between the two groups isn't 100% binary. I agree with you, Brendan, about the advantages to being an open-minded liberal vs. a fundamentalist.
But I think this kind of dialogue about parenting touches on some other interesting convergences. As my kids grew up in the 90s, much to my surprise, I found myself in agreement more often than not with the homeschooling Christian families.
Like us, they eschewed TV, consumerism, violent movies, computer-game addiction, and dressing 9-year-olds like sluts and gangbangers. Like us, they supported music and arts education. Like us, they believed in community service and charity. Like us, they loved nature and the environment (even if they thought God created it 5000 years ago). When our kids played at their houses, we didn't have to worry about the mom planting them in front of the TV for 4 hours to watch MTV, nor did we have to worry about them learning racist jokes, getting into the dad's porno collection or his stash of weed (all of which happened in secular households).
They also had plenty of good
bjkeefe wrote on 01/18/2008 at 09:33 PM
Re: Afterthoughts
Wonderment:
Speaking in part from personal experience, shielding a child never works. Delaying confrontation with the truth and the base lures of modern society just makes the real world that much more devastating (and tempting).
Unless, of course, you plan to keep your kids locked in the compound for life.
I understand where you're coming from -- it's instinctive to want to protect your kids -- but the better way to raise a child is to let him or her ease into life while you're there to serve as a guide. Throwing an 18-year-old in at the deep end without any experience in the wading pool threatens a lot of needless splashing about.
bjkeefe wrote on 01/18/2008 at 09:36 PM
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1swell:
I'll go along with your claim that not every Christianist family is as horrible as Arndt's, but not much further. Sorry, I just don't agree with your impressions of such people. Sure, they seem nice when things are going along fine, but let one little wrinkle enter their lives, and it's a mass movement towards jailing or bombing everyone who's different.
Baltimoron wrote on 01/18/2008 at 10:37 PM
Re: Greatest moments
Yes, there were several times I could think only of double entendres.
But then, I'm just an average product of public schools and a secular, nuclear family.
Baltimoron wrote on 01/18/2008 at 10:42 PM
Re: An Extremely Pro-Life Life
Generally, I agree with you.
However, there is the salient fact neither 'head has brought up, that the US is the one developed country that also has a positive birthrate. This means that reform will need to come for programs at both ends of life, birth and education, and retirement.
Baltimoron wrote on 01/18/2008 at 10:48 PM
Re: Afterthought
And, no links! That omission says volumes about the rigor of this discussion.
The topic could have been interesting, but Rick Arndt was not the guy to sell it on bhTV. Not only does he ramble, but Shire just let him talk endlessly about personal details (and talking over and through her). She also got trapped in this culture-talk about Harry Potter, instead of hard economics, or even the politics of home schooling. It's good to have people unharmed by pundit syndrome, but the interlocutor has to has to guide and to organize, and to relate to some spectrum of arguments.
Baltimoron wrote on 01/18/2008 at 10:54 PM
Spontaneity Is Not Optimal
I'm willing to accept your argument, but neither 'head connected the dots. Andt is good raw material for many subjects: home schooling, abortion, chasteness, and even the greening of the conservative movement. But, Shire was HORRIBLE! This diavlog was like the pre-interview, but then she should have gone back and started organizing her topics and disciplined Arndt into less verbose, personal anecdotes.
Baltimoron wrote on 01/18/2008 at 10:58 PM
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All of us are selfish!??
Leaving aside the question of whether selfishness is economically beneficial, or that I believe a smaller human race is a happier race, Shire just lets Arndt get away with these generalizations disguised as anecdotes.
Shire just makes the Left's quest for a religious identity to woo values voters bankrupt.
Baltimoron wrote on 01/18/2008 at 11:06 PM
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'Gee, Dad, I just want to sit in our house all my life and loaf off my younger siblings! Like you and Mom! Maybe we can hire some people, as long as they don't live here! They can even be non-home-schoolers and unchaste!'
I know this guy: he's Korean. He's building the biblical equivalent of Samsung. One day, one of his sons will buy a judgeship, a senator's seat, perhaps the presidency!
1swellfoop wrote on 01/18/2008 at 11:24 PM
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I'm curious if you have an example in mind here.
1swellfoop wrote on 01/18/2008 at 11:36 PM
Re: Spontaneity Is Not Optimal
I feel that was really more an issue of format than poor performance on either side... Diavlogs can be great for conversations and debates (see Wright and Kaus), and also do well for straight interviews (The Deported), but when you have these wierd in-betweeners they don't always catch fire... Particularly when one person wants to proseletize, as Arndt so obviously does.
brucds wrote on 01/19/2008 at 12:35 AM
Re: Spontaneity Is Not Optimal
I can't express how much I don't give a shit what this character thinks.
Taking a pass after the first few minutes...
Baltimoron wrote on 01/19/2008 at 01:59 AM
Re: Spontaneity Is Not Optimal
Quoting 1swellfoop: I feel that was really more an issue of format than poor performance on either side... After listening to more of this, it's both poor performance and format. I didn't think highly of Shire even in her "major", arms control. This seemed like indulgence.
TwinSwords wrote on 01/19/2008 at 05:34 AM
Re: Spontaneity Is Not Optimal
I think one of the problems was that the answers from Arndt rarely had anything to do with the questions asked by Shire. He has so many pre-packaged answers designed to spin the listener away from whatever the question was intended to explore, I got dizzy listening.
bjkeefe wrote on 01/19/2008 at 09:36 AM
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Quoting 1swellfoop: I'm curious if you have an example in mind here. No, not really. Just a vague impression of the Bush-lovin' fundies.
I apologize for the over-generalization. At the time of posting that last comment, I was still seething from my 12 minutes of listening to Arndt.
Bloggin' Noggin wrote on 01/19/2008 at 11:17 AM
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Quoting bjkeefe: The one positive thing that can be said about Rick Arndt is that Rod Dreher no longer has to hold the top slot on the BH.tv List of Creeps.
I find the notion of procreating fourteen children repulsive and irresponsible. We have too many people on the planet for that kind of behavior. If you're the sort that finds the idea of abortion so repellent, then you should be first in line for adopting unwanted children, not siring excessive flocks of your own.
Every religious nut I've ever met with Arndt's attitude has the underlying agenda to outbreed the Others. This attitude makes me sick. Arndt's creation of a cult by insulating his kids from the outside world is nothing short of child abuse. None of them have moved out yet? I'm sorry, that's just whacked. Finally, Arndt's obvious experience in soft-pedaling his message and speaking in code only aggravates the nausea.
I don't know why BH.tv feels compelled to give air time to the proselytizer of such an abhorrent message. There's a lot to be said for diverse viewpoints -- and I'll sit through most of them
jstrummer wrote on 01/19/2008 at 12:03 PM
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Wow, this guy's nuts. In another context, he'd be considered insane. In America, he can say nonsense like virginity is a "way to honor women" and "the sacrifice of Jesus washes you whiter than snow" and be considered part of a coveted voter bloc.
Wonderment wrote on 01/19/2008 at 03:20 PM
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You and I disagree with some of Arndt's values, but the mere fact that we think his values are wrong doesn't show that he must have been unduly coercive or deceptive in the methods he used to inculcate them in his children. Values? Or beliefs?
bjkeefe wrote on 01/20/2008 at 12:04 PM
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BN:
I'm not surprised that you didn't agree with my attack on Arndt, but I am glad to hear from you.
Sorry, though, I am not going to budge from anything I said my original comment. Procreating fourteen children is irresponsible, and proselytizing about that being an admirable thing is abhorrent. There is an enormous difference in what he's doing and my not sending every last nickel to some poor bastard in a third-world country. I have no iPhone, and no wish to own one, but I think other people buying them has some positive benefit for others. Arndt's lifestyle, on the other hand, is all bad.
Having all your kids still living at home well into adulthood is also just plain wrong. I'll grant I don't have proof positive of Arndt's machinations, but the suggestion of inculcation, if not downright brainwashing, is inescapable. This is a perfect example of what Richard Dawkins means when he talks about religious upbringing being a form of child abuse.
In general, I buy some of your idea that not every personal choice needs to be treated as political, but in this case, I have no problem with saying what I said. Arndt is holding himself up as
rcocean wrote on 01/20/2008 at 01:58 PM
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Excellent diavlog and an interesting one. But next time Rick needs to give direct answers to direct questions.
HankMorgan wrote on 01/20/2008 at 04:23 PM
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The irony in the comments so far is part of a common pattern. Liberals tend to paint themselves as the tolerant ones, while painting people like Arndt as "insane," "irrational," and "abhorrent." Arndt clearly has strong views, but he appears to express these views in a tolerant, upbeat way, while demonstrating respect for those who might disagree.
Judging from many of the comments posted here, perhaps it's not conservatives who display judgmentalism, but those on the other side of the aisle.
Bloggin' Noggin wrote on 01/20/2008 at 04:42 PM
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It's disgusting to have more than 2.5 children? Extended families living close together (some of the older sons had separate apartments) is disgusting?
It seems to me that you are being highly ethnocentric here -- these living arrangements etc. are not "normal" in the US at this time, but they are in other places (even Kennebunkport and Hyannisport) and have been at other times. Children often live with their parents longer now than they used to -- it's certainly becoming more normal even here and now.
Arndt did take some care to treat the number of children as a personal decision. Insofar as that's all it is, and insofar as his wife and his children are not being coerced in any way, it seems rather illiberal to me to say we know how he and his children should run their lives better than they do.
Insofar as this is one of Mill's "experiments of living," and insofar as the participants in the experiment find that the results suit them, I find it hard as a good liberal to say they shouldn't live this way. I certainly don't find having chidren "disgusting". Are you
TwinSwords wrote on 01/20/2008 at 05:20 PM
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Quoting HankMorgan: The irony in the comments so far is part of a common pattern. Liberals tend to paint themselves as the tolerant ones, while painting people like Arndt as "insane," "irrational," and "abhorrent." Arndt clearly has strong views, but he appears to express these views in a tolerant, upbeat way, while demonstrating respect for those who might disagree.
Judging from many of the comments posted here, perhaps it's not conservatives who display judgmentalism, but those on the other side of the aisle. This is a tired, trite conservative bumper sticker, used any time anyone disagrees with them.
Being tolerant of something doesn't mean agreeing with it. No one is challenging Arndt's right to live his life or raise his kids as he wishes. But we don't feel obligated to approve of it, either. This is in stark contrast to conservatives, who use the law to impose their own narrow views on everyone.
It's a lot more straightforward than you think: Advocating toleration means condemning intolerance — by definition. If you're an agent of intolerance, liberals will criticize you. Liberals are under no obligation to be tolerant of the intolerant, except insofar as every last one of us would
HankMorgan wrote on 01/20/2008 at 05:54 PM
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Quoting TwinSwords: This is a tired, trite conservative bumper sticker, used any time anyone disagrees with them.
Being tolerant of something doesn't mean agreeing with it. No one is challenging Arndt's right to live his life or raise his kids as he wishes. But we don't feel obligated to approve of it, either. This is in stark contrast to conservatives, who use the law to impose their own narrow views on everyone.
It's a lot more straightforward than you think: Advocating toleration means condemning intolerance — by definition. If you're an agent of intolerance, liberals will criticize you. Liberals are under no obligation to be tolerant of the intolerant, except insofar as every last one of us would defend to the death his right to express his intolerant views, and raise his children to do the same. I'm not saying that people shouldn't disagree and criticize Arndt. I disagree with many of the political views he expresses as well. But that disagreement should be couched in the same form of respectful dialogue that he himself uses. There's no need to label him as "insane" or "irrational" or a "nut." Those are epithets, not arguments.
bjkeefe wrote on 01/20/2008 at 08:02 PM
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BN:
There is a big difference between 14 and the number you plucked from thin air (2.5). That's a borderline straw man argument, and beneath you.
There is also a big difference between "extended families living close together" and the insular compound of the Arndt cult. Your pointing out that some of the robochildren live "separate apartments" doesn't impress me any more than it did when Arndt said it. This isn't new families being near Grandpa, it is captives imprisoned by mental chains.
As for your resorting to your tactic of accusing me of "illiberalism" and not being a "good liberal" every time I call a wingnut a wingnut, you should know by now that that technique doesn't impress me. I don't form my opinions based on group dogma, especially when someone else attempts to define that dogma for me. The spirit of tolerance is not a blank check for offensive behavior.
bjkeefe wrote on 01/20/2008 at 08:11 PM
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Hank:
Twin said most of what I would say. I'll add one thing.
Those are epithets, not arguments. When conservatives refrain from calling every Muslim an "Islamofascist," every Latino an "illegal," and every opponent of the Iraq invasion a "traitor," you might have some moral standing for this statement. Until then, Twin is right: it is an empty talking point to say that liberals are intolerant, and it's completely fatuous to think that conservatives are less intolerant than liberals.
As I pointed out to BN above, the spirit of tolerance for different lifestyles does not mean condoning all forms of behavior without exception.
HankMorgan wrote on 01/21/2008 at 11:11 AM
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Quoting bjkeefe: Hank:
Twin said most of what I would say. I'll add one thing.
When conservatives refrain from calling every Muslim an "Islamofascist," every Latino an "illegal," and every opponent of the Iraq invasion a "traitor," you might have some moral standing for this statement. Until then, Twin is right: it is an empty talking point to say that liberals are intolerant, and it's completely fatuous to think that conservatives are less intolerant than liberals.
As I pointed out to BN above, the spirit of tolerance for different lifestyles does not mean condoning all forms of behavior without exception. I don't think there are many conservatives calling EVERY Latino "illegal." Once again, you are the one painting an entire group of people -- conservatives -- with a broad brush. Even if there are some conservatives who engage in this sort of name-calling, Mr. Arndt seems to be a refreshing exception to that sort of politics. Thus, it is intolerant to engage in name-calling against him simply because he is a conservative.
If we want to move forward in this country, we need to be able to engage in political discussions without personal attacks. The lack of respect shown for someone with
bjkeefe wrote on 01/21/2008 at 11:53 AM
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Hank:
I don't think there are many conservatives calling EVERY Latino "illegal." True. And I don't really believe that. I merely offered that to show what it feels like when you make equally sweeping statements about liberals.
... it is intolerant to engage in name-calling against him [Arndt] simply because he is a conservative. I didn't call him names because he's a conservative. I called him names because I found him utterly repugnant.
If we want to move forward in this country, we need to be able to engage in political discussions without personal attacks. The lack of respect shown for someone with a different perspective on this discussion thread is, therefore, fairly depressing. Tell it to Fox News, AM radio, the Republican leadership, and the televangelists.
And tell me, would your politeness for a different perspective extend to someone who joined this thread and put forth the proposition that raped women should be subject to "honor killings?" Or that all non-Caucasians should be deported? Granted, Arndt isn't quite that bad, but I offer these extreme examples to illustrate that a line does exist. We all draw that line in different places and for different reasons. I found Arndt to be on the other side of
January wrote on 01/21/2008 at 03:15 PM
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Yes, direct answers would have been nice. I appreciate Ms. Shire's efforts in this. I'm sure she was hoping for more than Mr. Arndt's wall of repetition. Arndt has clearly reeled off the same answers before, over and over, and probably can't be shocked into taking any respectful question seriously. He gave only one explanation for the docility of his offspring and it was weak (that his household offers a better deal than pop culture). No corporal punishment? No sending them to bed without their supper? Surely his children tested the limits at times, so what did he and his wife do? Arndt never really opened up to Jackie, because for him, I daresay, the exercise was one of advertising, not disclosure and certainly not an exchange of ideas.
HankMorgan wrote on 01/21/2008 at 05:10 PM
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Quoting bjkeefe: Hank:
I didn't call him names because he's a conservative. I called him names because I found him utterly repugnant.
Tell it to Fox News, AM radio, the Republican leadership, and the televangelists.
Great. Let's show how bad the televangelists are by labeling certain lifestyles to be "repugnant." Solid rhetorical move there.
bjkeefe wrote on 01/22/2008 at 02:28 AM
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Hank:
Your criticism of my use of "repugnant" might have had a whole lot more substance had you addressed the final paragraph of my previous comment.
HankMorgan wrote on 01/22/2008 at 09:12 AM
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Quoting bjkeefe: Hank:
Your criticism of my use of "repugnant" might have had a whole lot more substance had you addressed the final paragraph of my previous comment. Your final paragraph was a red herring, and I assumed anyone could realize that. You gave examples of people advocating certain POLICY choices -- the killing of rape victims or the deportation of non-whites.
If someone advocated those policy positions, I would be the first to label their views as going beyond the pale. But even in that case, I would steer clear of labeling someone's LIFESTYLE repugnant or insane. There's a difference between disagreement over public policy and personal attacks.
bjkeefe wrote on 01/22/2008 at 10:14 AM
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Hank:
If someone advocated those policy positions, I would be the first to label their views as going beyond the pale. But even in that case, I would steer clear of labeling someone's LIFESTYLE repugnant or insane. There's a difference between disagreement over public policy and personal attacks. So, are you saying you would NOT condemn someone who murdered his sister after she was raped?
I'll also point out that having fourteen kids is not just a private matter. Overpopulation is everybody's problem, and everybody's responsibility.
Finally, Arndt isn't just living a private life. He is a public figure actively promoting such a lifestyle.
Bloggin' Noggin wrote on 01/22/2008 at 04:50 PM
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There is a big difference between 14 and the number you plucked from thin air (2.5). That's a borderline straw man argument, and beneath you. My point was that, 14 children is not currently "normal" in the non-evaluative sense, but we should be very careful about jumping from "not usual" to "abnormal" and even "repulsive". How large must a family be before it ceases to be a charming group of people who love each other and becomes "repulsive"? Bob suggests my standing up for Arndt is surprising, but it isn't surprising that I would be sensitive to this kind of slide from "unusual" or "not what we would like" family arrangements to abnormal and "repulsive" ones. I disagree that I was being unfair.
It seems to me that you have to be assuming things about Arndt's actions and motivations that you are simply not in a position to know -- or at least far more than I know. If you have information from Arndt's website where he makes it clear that he forced his wife to bear all those children and that he waterboarded those virginity pledges out of his children, then I'll join you
Wonderment wrote on 01/22/2008 at 05:53 PM
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My 2 cents:
Although woman's rights and religious beliefs influence how people decide the big ethical question, this is primarily a debate about responsibility regarding overpopulation. It seems fair and productive to ask Rick the population question, which he could answer (or not) to the satisfaction of Brendan and the rest of us.
How many children should a couple have?
The classic answer is the ZPG replacement number: 2.
Some people would say even 1 is too many (adopt instead).
Some people would say, "As many as you can afford, provide for".
Some people would say, "It doesn't matter how many YOU can afford. You have to think in terms of what the planet can afford, and the consumption of finite resources per capita."
Some people would let Big Brother sanction those who overpopulate (China being the most draconian of the states that sanction or offer small family incentives).
Some people would use "common sense" to decide: "Well, 4 seems okay, but 14 is ridiculous. "
Some people would say, "Mind your own friggin' business."
TwinSwords wrote on 01/22/2008 at 06:39 PM
Re: An Extremely Pro-Life Life
Quoting Wonderment: My 2 cents:
Although woman's rights and religious beliefs influence how people decide the big ethical question, this is primarily a debate about responsibility regarding overpopulation. It seems fair and productive to ask Rick the population question, which he could answer (or not) to the satisfaction of Brendan and the rest of us.
How many children should a couple have?
The classic answer is the ZPG replacement number: 2.
Some people would say even 1 is too many (adopt instead).
Some people would say, "As many as you can afford, provide for".
Some people would say, "It doesn't matter how many YOU can afford. You have to think in terms of what the planet can afford, and the consumption of finite resources per capita."
Some people would let Big Brother sanction those who overpopulate (China being the most draconian of the states that sanction or offer small family incentives).
Some people would use "common sense" to decide: "Well, 4 seems okay, but 14 is ridiculous. "
Some people would say, "Mind your own friggin' business." There are at least two other types. One is the Mark Steyn type, fearing the West will be overrun by Muslims in the next generation or two. They say stuff like
bjkeefe wrote on 01/23/2008 at 06:37 AM
Re: An Extremely Pro-Life Life
BN:
Most of your criticism is well-put, and intellectually, I buy some of it.
Of course I can't prove some of my suspicions. I can only say that I've met enough people who have the same attitude that Arndt conveyed to feel confident in my predictions about life under his roof. You feel a squishing sensation under your shoe and smell something terrible often enough, you don't need a coprologist to know you stepped in dog shit.
The larger part of my distaste, though, is Arndt's preaching. We as a planet are harmed by irresponsible reproduction. We as a society are harmed by people raising their kids with excessive religious indoctrination, not least of which is twisted attitudes about sex. I wouldn't support a law against Arndt's behavior, but if he's going to be pushing his point of view in public, then I'm going to push right back.
Maybe this is prejudice. If so, I'll accept the label. I am prejudiced against all sorts of people whose behavior goes beyond the pale, and yes, where beyond lies is entirely defined by my own set of principles. I wonder, though, if you would be so quick to criticize me for being illiberal
garbagecowboy wrote on 01/24/2008 at 05:52 PM
Wow, I came late to the party...
...but there's a lot of anger here.
As far as I can tell, this guy Arndt hasn't hurt anybody. I won't offer a defense of the man, save to say that I strongly agree with Bloggin' Noggin', but I just wanted to express my surprise at how vicious, personal, and bitter some of the attacks on this guy have been.
Brendan, somehow this guy being an Evangelical and having 14 kids means he'd like to exterminate all the brown people?
You guys need to take a deep breath and go watch Glen Loury and Josh Cohen... your serotonin levels will soon be back to normal.
bjkeefe wrote on 01/24/2008 at 11:02 PM
Re: Wow, I came late to the party...
Adam:
Brendan, somehow this guy being an Evangelical and having 14 kids means he'd like to exterminate all the brown people? I don't think I said that, and I don't think he has that specific aim.
I do think part of his mindset is to out-breed the Others, though, yes.
Sorry if my viciousness offended you. I thought about saying nothing, but then I decided that it was better to speak up. As I said to BN above, the tipping point came when I realized that this isn't just a personal and private choice of lifestyle -- Arndt is actively proselytizing in favor of it. I find his views appalling and dangerous, and therefore decided to respond in an equally extreme tone.

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